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Occupation Is: Managing a Household

Remember:  Occupational Therapists define the word “occupation” as the way people “occupy” their time.  So, for us, this term actually includes all roles involved in living (again, therapy for living, who knew?).  In keeping with my theme for October, in celebration of OT month, I will continue to explore the journey of “occupation” from morning to night, highlighting how OT’s help when things breakdown along the continuum that is living.
 
Let’s just assume that we have done all the important stuff.  We have slept, are out of bed, groomed, dressed, fed, are done being productive, and did some fun stuff in between.  Eventually, like it or not, we need to tackle the not-fun stuff.
 
The interesting thing about “not-fun stuff” is that everyone defines this so differently.  Each of us has our own unique interests, abilities, and standards when it comes to groceries, laundry, cleaning and managing our yard and property.  Personally, I loathe grocery shopping (and anything that is meal preparation) and would rather cut the lawn then use a vacuum.  My kids do their own laundry as of age 10 because it has a wonderful built in consequence.  No laundry = no clothes to wear and I don’t need to say a thing.  Besides, I don’t think asking them to start doing this at 16 will go as well.  With six of us in our house, and two animals, the meal responsibilities, cleaning, and shopping tasks are time consuming.  However, all off these things are another layer in my lasagna of “occupations”. 
 
Imagine you are in a car accident and spend a few weeks in hospital.  Your spouse, friend, mother, brother, someone, has to swoop in and help with your children, pets or house.  Eventually you come home and find that things have not been done to your standards, if done at all, and it will be months before you will have the ability to get back to these tasks independently.  The look of your home and property is stressful for you, the meals are different, and you are home all day to notice.  Or maybe you weren’t in a car accident, but have a progressive illness or medical condition that renders you to be no longer able to complete heavier tasks, but you try diligently to manage the smaller tasks within your abilities but this too is now declining.   Perhaps you have sustained a brain injury and your memory is lacking for when things were last accomplished, or when you try to go to the store you end up missing half of the items on your list, if you even take one.  Or worse, the store is an overwhelming place for you considering the visual and auditory stressors from any busy shopping environment.  Maybe mood is the problem:  depression and anxiety can be significant barriers to getting things done, but yet the more things are not done, the more depressed and anxious you become. The cycle continues.
 
Managing a household and all the tasks included in this, is very much an occupation.  It is a separate set of demands from personal care, earning an income, or managing our productive time.  Occupational therapists routinely help clients to return to the occupation that is managing a home.  There are multiple strategies that can be used for people with brain injuries, chronic pain, or social phobias to return successfully to grocery shopping.  There are also multiple aids available that makes light and heavy cleaning easier.  We often need to help people break down tasks into smaller chunks, or educate people on pacing as a means to get things accomplished.  Education on proper body mechanics is also very useful at reducing strain on recovering shoulders, necks and backs for things like lifting, carrying, reaching, and bending.  Outdoor tasks are more difficult to resume, simply because they are heavier, but many of the same principles apply.  If behavior, mood or avoidance are the problem, we have strategies and tools to help with that also.  We believe that most functional problems have a solution. 
 
Occupations are therefore all the things included in managing your home.  These tasks can be heavy, time consuming, and “not-fun”, but they are a necessary part of living.  If you are struggling to get these things done, or know someone else who is, occupational therapy can help.
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